
relationship therapy
Amsterdam
"A good relationship has the ability to deal with conflict."
Relationship therapy in the Amsterdam Pijp area
Are you looking for a reliable relationship therapist in Amsterdam? At Tatkraft, we offer professional counseling to strengthen your relationship and rediscover love.
Effective approach with IBCT couples therapy
IBCT couples therapy is known for its practical, proven and structured approach that helps break stuck patterns, improve communication, and strengthen the connection between partners.
Thijs - an empathetic and reliable couples therapist
Thijs is an IBCT-certified relationship therapist who supports you in resolving relationship issues and gaining deeper insight into both yourself and your partner.
Contact us today for a no-obligation appointment at our attractive practice in the Amsterdam Pijp area or via an online consultation.
our approach
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curiosity
Get in touch and book your first free session
The first session is an exploratory meeting, which means that Thijs gets to know you in order to create mutual trust and equality.
It is the starting point of your search and aims to establish the desired changes and milestones.
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discovery
Discover blind spots and patterns in the relationship.
During the first session, personal challenges are also identified. Among other things, you will gain insight into your (unconscious) thought and behavior patterns, getting to the heart of the problems.
After this is determined, Thijs will work with you to come to an analysis and propose a tailored couples therapy program....
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consciousness
Receive guidance in the IBCT method.
If you agree, you and Thijs will start this journey together and you can start working effectively on your relationship. Eventually you will begin to see your relationship and your own behavior in a different light.
Our method consists of in-depth conversations, aided by IBCT techniques and exercises such as developing emotional intelligence, acceptance, empathy and effective communication patterns.
FAQ
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Are you looking for the best relationship therapy that is proven to be effective? Then choose Evidence-Based relationship therapies such as Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) and the approved approach I use as a trained IBCT therapist.
While there is no single "best" couples therapy, both EFT and IBCT have proven effective in improving relationships.
While EFT focuses on understanding and transforming emotional patterns, I myself am trained in IBCT, an approach that focuses on addressing specific interaction patterns and teaching effective conflict resolution skills.
With my expertise in IBCT, I help couples strengthen their relationships and make lasting improvements.
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A session with Thijs takes about 1.5 hours. An individual intake for couples therapy takes 1 hour.
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The number of sessions a couple needs varies by situation. We have an IBCT couples therapy treatment protocol of about 10 sessions.
Depending on the severity of the relationship problems, we may use parts of this or apply the whole. Generally we see that at least 5 sessions are needed, excluding intake.
For issues that require behavioral change of individuals, we need more time, think of then rather 10 sessions.
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Integrative Behavioral Couple Therapy (IBCT) is ideally suited for couples who want to address specific interaction patterns and develop effective conflict resolution skills.
If you find that you and your partner are stuck in repetitive conflicts or that communication problems are straining the relationship, IBCT can be a valuable approach. Therapy focuses on identifying destructive interaction cycles and teaching new ways of communicating and dealing with conflict.
IBCT is also suitable for couples who are willing to work together to improve their relationship and are open to learning new skills to strengthen their bond and make lasting improvements.
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If you do nothing in the face of serious relationship problems, they will never resolve themselves.
Relationship therapy allows you to learn different techniques and gain insights that do help you resolve relationship problems.
Want to know if couples therapy works? Integrative Behavioral Couple Therapy (IBCT) is known as one of the most thoroughly researched and effective approaches worldwide.
Research (e.g., Dijkstra, 2017) confirms that this therapy leads to relationship improvement in as many as 70% of cases, resulting in increased satisfaction and better communication between partners.
Although IBCT is relatively new in the Netherlands, it is rapidly gaining popularity because of its proven effectiveness. This approach aligns seamlessly with existing methods in the Dutch mental health system, especially cognitive behavioral therapy.
If you are looking for a couples therapist, consider the benefits of IBCT, a proven approach that can help you improve your relationship and make lasting changes.
*) Dijkstra, P. (2017). Protocol-based treatment of partners with relationship problems. In: G. Keijsers et al. (2017), Protocol-based treatments for adults with mental health problems (pp. 498-558). -
A 1.5-hour appointment for a couple receiving couples therapy has a fee of 150 euros excluding VAT.
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Up to 24 hours in advance, you can reschedule or cancel your appointment free of charge. Send an email, app or call us if you do not receive a counter message!
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That's right! Every Monday from the Albert Cuyp
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Our practice sits
in the Amsterdam Pijp, on the v
n Ostadestraat 283A, near the Sarphatipark.
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Yes, with us relationship therapy can also take place online, e.g. via Teams.

What is IBCT relationship therapy?
Discover an effective approach to improving your relationship.
Are you and your partner miles apart? Or do you feel like you keep getting into arguments? IBCT couples therapy can help bring you closer together and work together to solve problems. This approach focuses not only on change, but also on acceptance and learning to deal with differences.
What does IBCT couples therapy look like?
Unlike traditional couples therapies, IBCT (Integrative Behavioral Couple Therapy) begins with a focus on emotional acceptance and tolerance. Only then is work done on resolving issues within your relationship.
How can IBCT help you?
IBCT not only offers practical tools for improving communication, but also for accepting each other's differences and changing ineffective communication patterns. This creates more peace and understanding in your relationship.
What makes IBCT so effective?
IBCT focuses not only on addressing problems in communication, but also on fostering acceptance and tolerance. Through this approach, couples can better understand why certain problems arise and work together to find more effective ways of communicating and resolving conflict. By focusing on acceptance and change, couples can work to improve their relationship on a deep level.
What does an IBCT therapist do?
An IBCT therapist helps couples accept personal differences and emotional sensitivities. They also support improving communication and solving problems together.
Summary
In summary, IBCT couples therapy offers couples a structured approach to improve their relationship through acceptance, change and effective communication.
If you are looking for professional support to strengthen your relationship, consider IBCT couples therapy as a valuable option for you.

Discover the unlimited potential of your relationship through purposeful couples therapy.
IBCT couples therapy under the guidance of Thijs Sins.
tatkraft was founded by thijs sins
Philosopher Thijs Sins has been working as a coach, therapist and teacher since 2012. He coaches individuals, couples and groups alike, his goal being to help people discover their unlimited potential.
Thijs differs from another couples therapist in his ability to search for the root causes of behavioral patterns. Important questions are discovered, disentangled and answered.
Our trainer score at Springest is a 9.8
Dutch order of professional coaches
CRKBO lecturer
Accreditation training physicians